Stupid & Rude

Chilly —  April 25, 2016 — Leave a comment

Listen BIGGERWe suck at listening sometimes… a lot of times… well, to be honest, most of the time. We have so much competing for our attention, that’s it’s difficult to sit and remain focused & respectful while someone is speaking to us.  We look around, cut them off, play with our smartphone or start thinking of our answer without hearing clearly what is being said.

We probably do that with God too – that is, IF we even consider the thought that He may have something to say.  Today as I was reading Proverbs 18 (from the Message), a verse really hit this point out of the park…

Answering before listening is both stupid and rude. v.13

 

Sounds simple, right?  But does it happen?
Are we stupid and rude? Hmmm…  Most people aren’t looking for us to solve their problems or sum them up, they just want to know that we love them enough to patiently listen – to hear them out.  And, what about God? What does He have to do to get your attention?  How would He grade your listening skills?

My wife is such a GREAT listener — her example always helps me with this area! Do you have a good listener who you can learn from? Seek them out & then pay attention (yes, LISTEN)!

I’ve got work to do…

  • why is listening so difficult?
  • what percent of your conversations are ‘real‘?
  • how can you improve today?
  • huh??

Reaching for the Q-Tips,
Chilly

Chilly

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Chilly is a follower of Christ, husband of a queen and father of avengers.
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