Artificial or Authentic?

Chilly —  July 23, 2014 — 1 Comment

authenticGod desires that our service, worship, witness, sacrifice, confession and love ALL be authentic. Yet, if we’re not careful, it’s way too easy to offer Him fake, plastic, versions … yeah, we give Him what we think He wants or what we wish we possessed or were.  But this causes us to allow deceit into what is sacred and ultimately we, ourselves, begin to accept & believe the lie. We become artificial… a fraud – and yes, like a china town rolex, without close examination most are fooled (including us).

We must lay before him what is in us, not what ought to be in us. ~ C.S. Lewis

Let’s examine our hearts. Are you artificial or authentic? God knows, do you?

Don’t just pretend that you love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Stand on the side of the good. Romans 12:9

… becoming more & more Authentic, Chilly

5 Questions:

  1. Are you a poser or the real thing?
  2. How do you know?
  3. What do you do to ensure you stay on the authentic path?
  4. Who, in your life, doesn’t put up with your games?
  5. On a scale from 1 to 10 (10 being most), how authentic are you?

(Number your comments 1-5 … let’s talk this out)

Worthy

Chilly —  July 22, 2014 — Leave a comment

nail-scarred-handsChrist died for men precisely because men are not
worth dying for; t
o make them worth it.
” C.S. Lewis

HE died in order to make US worth it - what an unbelievably humbling thought. Just take a moment or two and really let this thought sink in…

How can I grasp this kind of love and sacrifice? And, how should I respond? Ultimately, I think the only way to maintain the ‘worth’ He has given me, is to do the very thing He made me to do (and be).

But my life is WORTH NOTHING unless I use it for doing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus the work of telling others the Good News about God’s wonderful kindness and love. Acts 20:24

worthless without Him, chilly

9 C’s of Church Planting

Chilly —  July 15, 2014 — 6 Comments

This is a revised & updated post.
Shared with the Accelerate Network in June 2014.

Church Planting is awesome! I love it!

courageChurchIs it tough? Oh yes! But, is it worth it? Always! Over the last 10 years, I’ve planted three church campuses in the inner city communities of Detroit. My family (incredible wife & 5 amazing kids) live right in the heart of the city. We do not have any full-time paid staff and we continually are in need of funds and resources just to get by … THIS IS FAITH! I’ve been chosen by God to share His love & truth in the most dangerous city in America. This isn’t punishment, it’s an honor! In addition to leading Courage Church, I am also Church Planting and Network minister for Mount Hope Church.

I think church planters are a rare breed:

  • We’re thrill-seeking pioneers with apostolic anointing.
  • We eat impossible for breakfast!
  • We hear God’s heartbeat in HD surround sound every where we go!
  • We smile through trials and accept pain as confirmation for pleasing God.
  • We get dissed & deserted by those we love.
  • We get to share in the most WONDERFUL moments in the life of a person or community.
  • Big time spiritual stuff! Yes, it’s worth it!

We don’t just believe in miracles, we depend on them.

I was recently asked, “what’s it take to be a church planter?” … I took some time to pray & think about this, then scribbled the following in my journal. Maybe it’s unique to me – that’s ok. But, maybe it’s for others too – even better! My prayer is that you would be encouraged, inspired and equipped to do WHATEVER God created you to do and that you would get BUSY doing it!

9 C’s of Church Planting

1. Calling
Friends, IF God didn’t tell you to do it, please DON’T do it! There will be times that you have to go back to the moment when you KNEW God called you to this task. There can be no doubts. IF He has called you, get going! “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Romans 8:28 — don’t ever forget that you’re called to make disciples and that’s, exactly, what you want to build your church with!

2. Courage
The Bible is filled with “Be Brave – Be Strong – Be Fearless” challenges. But, my friends, even a Biblical pep talk is not enough. Your personal faith & trust in God is where Courage is born & grown. The bravest thing you can do is obey God. Learn His voice, know His Word and determine to never quit!

3. Creativity
This is an area where many feel lacking. But, I know two things: 1] God is the creator and 2] He has made some amazingly creative people. IF you’re not creative, there’s still no excuse, tap into the creative heart of God through the Holy Spirit. And, recruit some creative people!

4. Colleagues
God made us for relationship. We need other people in our life. I know that it’s an old cliche, but you’ve got to BE the friend you want to have. Serve others, praise others, bless others. He will send amazing people who share your heart & vision — be sure to be a good steward of this gift. Fight for their families, insist that they sabbath and compliment them privately & publicly. Lead them with your life!

5. Commitment
You must decide right up front: Quitting Isn’t an Option! This often involves removing & destroying “Plan B” — when God called Elisha ( 1 Kings 19), he chopped up all his plows, killed all his oxen and had a going away BBQ for his friends & family. He couldn’t go back to his old life – it was nothing but ashes.

6. Character
This is who you are when no one else is looking! It’s known MOST by your family and close friends — and, it’s revealed in your long-term effectiveness. Tell the truth ALWAYS, never cheat in anything, be accountable in everything and live what you profess. Your disciples will become what you are not what you say.

7. Compassion
Love, love, love, love, LOVE!! Love God & Love others! Climb into the eyes of Jesus and see the ‘GREAT’ in every person that you meet. DON’T just love those easy to love or who love you back. Love your critics & haters too! You’ll be surprised who responds to God’s love and who becomes your greatest allies ALL because you showed the unconditional love of Christ! When in doubt, LOVE more!-

8. Covering  ( suggested by: Pastor Edgar Cabello)

Seek deliberate covering both through prayer and by oversight. There are lots of church planting networks and associations. ARC, Acts29, CMN, etc. they are fantastic and provide relationships and resources — as well as funding support. But, I’ve found that we still function best with a parent church body that we are connected to. Perhaps this could be an extension of ‘colleagues’ (#4) but it speaks more towards a trusted authority (parent) who is involved in our development and nurturing.

9. Contentment.  (suggested by: Pastor Steve Gagne)
This is a tricky one, because I never want to be content with where I am spiritually, and always seeking more of the Holy Spirit’s activity in my life, and more relationships with others . But, at the some time, we also find ourselves comparing the work we are called to do against the work of others—my church compared to his church. We face seasons of much work, and seemingly slow growth; and it can be easy to start looking around. The “what am I doing wrong” or “what is he doing right” thoughts creep in. We must be content in the process in which God is taking us though, and not go looking for apparent shortcuts. There are no shortcuts… keep your hands on the plow and remain faithful.

Plus, “Why compare yourself with others? No one in the entire world can do a better job of being you than you.” ~Unknown

The above list is, obviously, NOT Comprehensive (hmmm, another “C” word). In fact, some of  you may feel like it needs a #10 in order to be more complete. Hmmm, ok, here’s ONE MORE:

10. CASH! 

You better be good at asking for money, seeing friends run and hide; and then asking for more! It’s tough to “give people the opportunity to invest into the Kingdom” (or some other spiritual way to say “beg”).

You must truly believe in what you’re doing and have a plan to invest ANY gift that you receive big or small. And, perhaps the best way to receive generously is to be generous! Give what you need. Sow into others. And, when you receive a gift, SEND A THANK YOU!

Ok, now, that’s really it! At least for now… Calling, Courage, Creativity, Colleagues, Commitment, Character, Compassion, Covering and Contentment… and, yeah, Cash!

Q: Which one of these “C’s” stood out to you? Why?

John 3:16

Chilly —  July 7, 2014 — 5 Comments

For God so loved the world 
that he gave his one and only Son, 
that whoever believes in him 
shall not perish but have eternal life. 
John 3:16

Yep, most of us have known this little verse FOREVER, but do we live it?  Within’ these simple words are such powerful truths… not only that, they contain the character and nature of God. This is pretty sobering for me — the more I really study it word by word by word — the more I realize how UNLIKE God I really am… gulp.

I have made it my mission to IMPROVE in the God-Qualities found within’ this profound verse…
Here’s 5 things that MUST increase in and through me (maybe you too):

1.  Amazing Love … for God so loved the world316

2.  Unlimited Generosity … that He gave His one & only son

3.  Universal Acceptance … whosoever believes in Him

4.  Total Forgiveness … shall not perish

5.  Eternal Perspective … have eternal life.

Can you imagine IF you lived daily with these five characteristics flourishing in and through you? I really want to see this grow more & more in me!

A few questions (number 1-4 in the comments):

    1. How long have you known this verse?
    2. How often do you think about it’s meaning?
    3. Which one (of my list of 5) needs the most improvement?
    4. Why do we take verses, like this, for granted?

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FlagUSA“Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery?  Forbid it, Almighty God!  I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty, or give me death.”
  - Patrick Henry

“I hope that when you’re my age you’ll be able to say, as I have been able to say: we lived in freedom, we lived lives that were a statement, not an apology” - Ronald Reagan